Before saying "yes," it’s wise to have honest conversations. In Islam, transparency builds trust, and marriage is not just about love, it’s about understanding, partnership, and faith.
Here are some essential pre-marital questions:
Faith & Values
How important is Islam in your daily life?
Which Islamic scholar do you follow?
How do you feel about praying together or attending Islamic events?
Family & Lifestyle
Do you expect to live with or near family?
What are your views on gender roles at home?
How do you feel about working, cooking, or raising kids?
Finances
Are you a saver or a spender?
Do you believe in joint or separate finances?
What debts or financial obligations do you currently have?
Children
Do you want children? If so, how many?
How would you like to raise them in terms of Islamic education?
Emotional Needs
How do you handle anger or stress?
What makes you feel loved and appreciated?
How do you resolve conflicts?
These aren’t interrogations, they’re conversations. Discuss with sincerity, involve family if needed, and keep things halal and respectful.