Marriage is a lifelong commitment and while love can feel exciting, it’s important to slow down and pay attention to signs that something might not be right.

Here are some red flags to watch out for before saying "yes":

Lack of Respect

If they speak down to you, dismiss your opinions, or make you feel small, that’s a major red flag. Mutual respect is the foundation of any healthy marriage.

Poor Communication

Are they secretive, avoid important conversations, or shut down during conflict? These habits often get worse after marriage

Anger Issues or Controlling Behavior

If they try to control your decisions, who you talk to, or what you wear, it’s not love, it’s control. Also, excessive jealousy is not cute , it’s a warning.

Inconsistent Faith

If their Islamic values seem shallow or selective, it might create conflict later, especially if religion is important to you.

Rushing the Process

If they push for a quick marriage without letting you ask questions or get to know them properly, step back. Real relationships take time and thought.