Created at : 2019-09-10 13:23:55
Author Name: NASHWA FAZIL
Marriage Moves At The Speed of Trust
Trust and faith in the other person is important for more reasons than you might think. Obviously, we want to be with someone who will be loyal to us and not sleep around (and there is more to loyalty than that). We want to have privileged rights with that special someone who wants the same with us.
“Is this person different than the others?” At least, is he/she different than the others who hurt me or who never earned my trust?
This question pops up onto your mind doesn't it?
The one who is suspicious of the other feels hurt and insecure – whether warranted or unwarranted. This can cause the suspicious person to want to leave the marriage. It can also encourage them to behave in ways that could eventually cause the suspected person to want to end the relationship.
If the suspected partner is actually a cheater that could be a blessing in disguise for the suspicious partner. But if the suspected is actually faithful, a good or potentially great relationship could be lost.
So the core key for this problem is! TRUST, BUT VERIFY
That is why it is so important to trust but verify – and to be trustworthy. Assume the best of the one you love, but also keep your wits about you. If a secretive activity or likely lies of the one you love preoccupy your mind, your trust for them will nosedive. That will often call into question the entirety of the relationship. Everything the other said, at this point, is up for scrutiny and doubt. So you should really verify your suspensions before the confession for you might lose something that's pure and beautiful over the suspensions.
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